So i've been bettering myself the last few months since we split, and have lost 3 stones in weight and I feel great.
I was on my daily walk today and noticed my ex in the arms of another man. God it hit me hard, i'm in shock. I just got in my car and drove off home, as I was on my way back anyway. Bit wow just wow.
Last updated on:2025-09-16T18:10:53+05:30
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when you saw them together, was it more the shock of seeing it or the pain of imagining them moving on? sometimes the difference makes it hit harder.
I both missed the way i held her, and felt replaced and worthless
but I am sad here sobbing my heart out over her
i'm happy that I didn't react. Also I haven't bothered trying to contact her. We are no contact and I dont plan on changing that
honestly the only thing that’s helped me in those moments is letting myself just sit with the shock instead of fighting it. like yeah it stings but it usually fades quicker when i don’t pretend i’m okay. music long drives helped me too.
damn i felt this… i remember when i ran into my ex holding hands with the girl he swore was just a friend. i thought i was fine then boom, it was like being punched in the chest. it’s crazy how you can be doing better feeling lighter and then one sight knocks the air out of you.