2 months passed, I enjoy my life.. still sad but okay after he leave me. Today, I just looking another person and get someone cute, I follow his IG. Then I take nap, guess what, suddenlly my ex come to my dream using the shirt style like the guy i follow. He smilling and take picture with me using couple shirt and dress..
After that dream, i don't feel sad but just happy, i see him again with big smile same like he treat me before... What do you think guys? i never have dream of him before for long time.. then i feel like i'm cheating coz looking another guy except him. But we breakup right now, he never contact me and just read my messages.
It's this sign mean i'm not ready to make relationship or I need to wait and give my ex changes..?
(we brokeup when we LDR, coz he will bussy and i wont understand.. well, i'm back and he still don't wanna me :)
Last updated on:2025-09-16T07:41:58+05:30
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do you actually want him back or were you just curious about someone new? and has he ever said he might come around or is he clearly staying away?
Well, Ofc i wanna him back but my mind say i need to move on and looking someone else. We break up in the chat and he say he can't doing this anymore due he so bussy.. wanna focus academic which is soo basic. Then i ask him to meet face to face when i'm back. He say if I'm changes, he will back to me but we event not talking at all, he say he will see one :)
I talk with his Mom and due we LDR he will be so ambition to take all the role in organization, i guess to minimize how he miss me (he cry when i go and even go to my country to meet me) Then, i think he enjoy do that until don't have time with me.
It's look like playing victim but he say he too pain to hold this anymore, i get my dream already and he do nothing. Thats why he so ambition to take everything to show up but i just need him :). He say, he wanna me changes be like "if he on, he will answer but if i don't = i'm bussy don't bother"
FYI: we just meet once per week, and i just chat him once in the night just for asking how he is... because i'm understand he bussy, but in 2025 have someone don't using their phone for 1 day? well for him, he online but not answer..
honest truth from me dreams are messy mashups of what your heart and brain are trying to sort. it doesn’t mean you’re cheating or that you owe him anything. if you want to date try following that curiosity in real life instead of waiting for a sign. don’t sit around hoping he changes. follow people who make you feel alive set small boundaries with your thoughts and let your actions match what you actually want. ❤️🔥
Thanks for the advice❣️ i really need this 🥺
Hope we going well in the future ❣️
oh man same. i went months without dreaming about him then suddenly he showed up in a dream wearing the vibe of someone new i liked. i woke up shocked and weirdly happy then immediately felt guilty. that mix of relief and shame stuck with me for days. 😭
Omaigatt 😭😭 why they comeback and bothering Us.. We wanna enjoy our life..
I have been through the same and he does not want me and I miss him too but I know we can go through this
Cheer up for us ❣️