last time I was able to make no contact for 12 days straight. I realised that with each day passing, the craving for contacting her became lesser. But what happens with me is that she always calls me and this takes me back to the day one with the same feelings of day one. So what I have decided now is to block her from everywhere. I'll not leave a single channel for her to contact me now. Always, whenever I try to maintain my urges and try to put behind everything, she comes back, and it's not that she comes back to make things right but just to say a few things like asking me how I am and all. This leads me think that she may be trying to make things right with me. And this has become a trigger for me and then I start thinking about and missing her. But this time, no matter what, I'm never going to unblock her from anywhere. God give me strength.
Last updated on:2025-09-24T19:17:21+05:30
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when she reaches out, do you feel like part of you still hopes she means more than just “how are you”?
yes.. and that's the thing which kept me hooked. but for past few days I have cut off any means of channel.
sounds like you’re finally protecting your peace. i’ve noticed the cravings do pass if you ride her out. just keep stacking those days.
i get this so much. my ex used to pop back in with random how are you texts and it would undo WEEKS of my healing. blocking was the only way i stopped spiraling.
you did well, seriously i had the same. a few days or two weeks and then a call from him. never again, you did great and I blocked my ex too. deleted from everywhere. take care of yourself and your emotions 💪
omg bro this sounds like a narcissistic who doesn’t want to let go of control of you she doesn’t want u but doesn’t want to let u be. sooooo good u blocked her read about narcissists and protect your peace
it's not like she comes and talk nicely and try to make things right between us... she just comes back, say a few words and then out of reach once again. this would disturb my whole healing
@WildSun535 that’s exactly the toxic narssistic behavior been through it to heal faster u need to block her atleast
for 30 days u need the
peace ❤️
good luck, bro
i wish i had your strenght, i m proud of you man