what do you do

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also, how do you get over/past/accept that they're probably sleeping or screwing around with someone else? and that it really meant absolutely nothing to them

Last updated on:2025-09-17T21:18:57+05:30

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steevtie
steevtie 6 mths ago

do you think it hurts more because of the act itself, or because of what it means in your head about your relationship?

DreamyMe449
DreamyMe449 6 mths ago

both. im not the casual sex type. so with him it really meant something to me, but to him it didnt

Justguy
Justguy 6 mths ago

what usually helps me is reminding myself that sex doesn’t equal love. people can numb out in messy ways, but it doesn’t erase what you had or who you are.

Unhealed
Unhealed 6 mths ago

When you figure it out, please let me know. It's been 4.5 months and it still hurts.

Mustbequeen
Mustbequeen 6 mths ago

Well, i heard best advice if you still hopping him. Just loved him and begging him until you tired.. Your body will automatic give in and more easy to move on as you already do all the best..

50% he will back 50% you move on

Lunabibo
Lunabibo 6 mths ago

god, that question ate me alive too. my ex jumped into someone else’s bed like a week after me. it made me feel like i never mattered. it took a long time to see it was about him, not me.

DreamyMe449
DreamyMe449 6 mths ago

how did you get past it