My ex and I ended things without much drama even though the relationship itself was intense. He didn’t break up with me in person just sent a text. No yelling no closure. Just confusion. His reasons didn’t make sense then and they still don’t. I think our first argument shook him and he had expectations he couldn’t voice.
It’s been five months and I’m still hurting. He rebounded two months after we broke up and that relationship already ended. At first I felt worthless like maybe she was everything I wasn’t. But now they’ve blocked each other and the whole thing feels messy.
We’re in the same social circles so I see it all. And lately he’s been watching my stories every day. Even rewatching. We haven’t spoken since the breakup but his presence online feels constant.
I feel so hurt. He didn’t choose me. He left in the worst way and I wish I had gotten angry instead of worrying about his mental health. Now it feels like I’m being breadcrumbed.
We shared laughter deep talks big feelings and it all got tossed aside. I can’t believe I’m still here five months later feeling stuck. I just want to stop hurting.
Last updated on:2025-09-18T02:21:02+05:30
Comments (4)
His defense is I'm crazy! Regardless I've had like 5 different people listen and they all say the same thing! OMG good God your still with him! Lol he's stopping hitting me for some reason?
Wen we sleep in the same bed I have to tell him not to touch me bc I'm literally disgusted by him! I can't hardly kiss him earlier anymore! Bc ik the fact is if I do I'm more than likely kissing a bunch of 2 bit whores! Lol
As a person who broke free I promise you it’s possible and you absolutely can. I no longer suffer any grief about my ex
He sound pretty much like an avoidant. Who rebound so quickly and failed again. A cycle of death. Leaving breadcrumbs.... Stalking... But no contact nor unfollow. Sounds like an avoidant.
U should watch videos about them for u to understand and clear ur confusion. Their mind doesn't work the same way as we did, and that's why it caused huge confusion. But after i learn bout their attachment style and how their mind works, i got the closure i need to move on.