Tonight was particularly bad. Something triggered me and made me drive by his house after 3 months of no contact. I halfway expected to see another woman's car in his driveway and that's exactly what happened. He was cheating on me with her and now they are still together. It broke me and I've been upset all night. It's like we just broke up and prior to this, I had been doing so well. I feel like I'm starting all over again in my healing. I'm on day 84 of no contact. He's a POS and I hope karma gets him and fast! I was loyal and did not deserve that after 7 years together. I wish i was over this already!
Last updated on:2025-09-18T06:08:46+05:30
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ugh i can feel how much that stung. do you think seeing her car made you more angry at him or more sad for you
Both! I feel like I'm starting all over with my healing now.
those resets are brutal. what’s helped me is not beating myself up for it, just calling it a bad night and moving forward again tomorrow.
I'm trying, but it really hurt me. Then he texted me today to let me know that his daughter had her baby. I did not respond and I blocked him. If he's so happy with her, then why is he texting me?!
i did the same thing once… drove by my ex’s place months later and saw her car there. it felt like the breakup ripped open all over again. i know that gut punch too well.