day 25 🥹i’m so happy i’m feeling way much better and i’m missing him less and finally accepting the situation that we’re over and that he won’t comeback. so proud of myself for locking in, i thought i would never manage to spend so many days without contacting him
Last updated on:2025-09-18T13:44:42+05:30
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25 days is big, fr. do you feel more relief or more sadness when you think about him now?
i feel so much better, i think of him less and when i do i don’t feel anything i’m not sad anymore
I’m so proud of you too I’m on day 21 myself and feel pretty good ❤️
so proud of you, keep going 💘
you are living one of the best 👌 moments in your life ✨️
it more like taking a step forward to begin a new life all by yourself
keep it up 💯♥️
thank you so much 🩷🩷
this part right here is huge. keep stacking those days, it gets lighter. whenever i missed mine i’d just journal or walk till it passed.
i remember when i hit like day 30 no contact with my ex… i cried but it was like proud tears. it feels unreal when you finally see you CAN do it ❤️
Gladd to hear that.. Do you have any tips for us?
i actually don’t, i came back to him at least 50 times during the year. but at some point (25 days ago) i realized that i kept coming back to him but i always ended hurt, always. so i swore to myself that i wouldn’t allow myself to text him ever again because i want to choose myself and be happy and that i don’t have to chase a man in the first place, if he loved me we would be okay but turns out we were never ok because he just couldn’t love me properly and care enough
being in contact with him was always horrible, i would be crying because he hurt me, because he left me on delivered and because i talked but he didn’t listen. so i just figured out that even though it would hurt because we’ve been on a relationship for the past year, i would be happier without having to beg for attention
@moonlights this so sadd.. luckly you past this things.. For mine, he the one who chassing me then after LDR, he say we not align anymore.. it's too pain and he wanna follow his ambution which so bussy next time.. Now i'm back already but he say he still stay in his decision.. Now i'm confuse should i go chassing him or just heal my self :).. It's our first relationship.. 🥺
That's awesome! Be proud of yourself!
hope all
thats so good to hear and yes you can definitely do it and have proved to yourself that anything is possible. Be proud of yourself and never give in xxxx