It’s been 123 days since I healed from my last crush, but now there’s a new problem. I developed feelings again for someone I already liked once before, last year. The biggest issue is that he lives really far away.
This summer something special happened — he really noticed me. He looked at me, smiled at me, and even told my friends I was pretty and really nice. Just a few days before he had to go home, my friends told him I used to have a crush on him, but not anymore, even though I still did. He was upset that they didn’t tell him sooner, and he even got angry at them for lying.
That same night, he told my friends he never wanted me to think he liked another girl, and that he never wanted us to become strangers. He added me on Snapchat, and it felt good. But soon after, I got detention for a while and couldn’t go out. I think he thought I was ignoring him, and from then on, things changed.
When he left for his country, he told my friends he never wanted to hurt me, and that distance was the biggest problem. He was scared that if he liked someone there, or if I liked someone here, we would just end up hurt. Now I feel lost, because I still like him, but I don’t know what to do anymore.
we still send snaps to eacother sorry for my english
thoo
Last updated on:2025-09-19T00:33:31+05:30
Comments (5)
you feel like you wanna keep trying with him, or are you more scared of holding on and getting hurt later?
He said he likes me, but we should stay friends because of the distance, since he’s afraid of hurting me. But I still think there’s a chance, and he’s coming next summer.Now i'm stuck
long distance crushes are tricky. when i felt stuck, i kept reminding myself to enjoy what was real in the moment, not the “what ifs.” that usually kept me grounded.
i felt this so much. i liked someone who lived in another country too. we had that spark, but the distance made everything heavy. it’s such a mix of sweet and painful. ❤️
Well girls.. I need to LDR just for 6 months and i will back to that city.. But we broke up a few weeks before i'm back :).. When he say im the one and only.. The reason? Communication.. even i say its because LDR, we will handle it like before now.. But he refuse me..
Some people lucky but make sure you have a strong bouding if you wanna do LDR.. It's can make you and him more stronger or break up like me :)