Today I hit three digits in this no contact journey. Perhaps, it is no longer no contact but my reality now. I am at peace and I believe that's all that matters. Took time to write a letter to him on why I blocked him and everything. Just to let out my emotions with no intentions of sending the letter anyway.
Last updated on:2025-09-19T00:06:39+05:30
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curious… when you finished the letter, did you feel lighter or did it stir stuff up again?
It was emotional when writing it, I cried at some point but at the end I felt relieved. It's everything I'd have said to him if we were to speak
that’s such a good way to release it. writing then not sending always helps me see my own heart clearer. keep leaning into that peace.
Thank you
i did the same thing wrote this long letter i never sent. it weirdly gave me closure i couldn’t get from him. proud of you for hitting 100 days
I think we find closure within ourselves. Expecting it from someone, will never give you a complete satisfaction
How were you able to find peace on your journey? It's still really early for me and Id love to be able to get to where you are now
Just give yourself time. That's all you need to do. Take each day as it comes and allow yourself to feel all the emotions. I also journal a lot when I feel the urge to reach out to him. I write everything down and I feel relieved every time