Last night I found out my ex has been seeing someone else for months and never said a word

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Last night I found out my ex has been seeing someone else for months and never said a word. The last time we texted was a month ago and he completely ignored me. Before that he was talking about marriage even asked me to move in.
I genuinely believed he’d be honest. I held onto hope that things would work out. Then I saw her photo in my Instagram suggestions holding flowers. And two coffees in his e-receipts. That was the moment it hit me.
Part of me wants to message her and tell her everything including the fact that he was getting off on video calls with me while he was with her. I know it sounds wild. But I’m furious.
He made me feel like I was the problem. Like I was crazy. Told me I needed help. Acted like he was the good guy. And the irony? He kept saying I had backup options. Like I was the one playing games. I feel betrayed humiliated and so damn angry. I don’t know what to do with all this hurt. I just want it to stop.

Last updated on:2025-09-18T21:35:04+05:30

Comments (4)

novelpeek
novelpeek 6 mths ago

are you more tempted to warn her about who he really is, or is it more about finally being heard after all the lies?

lovechat
lovechat 6 mths ago

when i was boiling with anger, what helped a little was journaling everything i wanted to scream at him. got it out of my body without giving him more of me.

BreivaK
BreivaK 6 mths ago

i went through this too. my ex was already living a double life while telling me he wanted to marry me. i felt humiliated, like i was the crazy one. that betrayal cut deep.

ZappyJet918
ZappyJet918 6 mths ago

he was just wasting your time find peace and move on