I know comparison steals joy, but it’s hard not to feel bitter when he jumped into a new relationship right after ours ended calling her the love of his life.
Meanwhile I’m the one who helped him when he had nothing. No food no place to stay. Now he’s out here writing diss tracks about me saying my anxiety was just an excuse. To his online followers I’m “the bitch who broke his heart.
It’s confusing and painful. How did he move on so fast into something that looks perfect while I’m here trying to heal from PTSD some of which came from being with him?
I don’t get it. I gave so much. And now I’m left picking up the pieces while he plays the victim.
Last updated on:2025-09-19T17:11:02+05:30
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do you feel like part of you still wants him to see the effort you gave, or is it more about processing your own trauma right now
it’s okay to feel bitter. comparison sucks, but your healing comes first. focus on your recovery, not his highlight reel.
ugh i’ve been there. my ex jumped into a new fling immediately too and painted me as the crazy one. it crushed me at first but eventually i realized his “perfection” wasn’t my reality.