We officially broke up just a week ago but he’s been seeing someone else for at least a month maybe longer. We were together for over two years another year casually before that and friends for nearly a decade. He’s known her for maybe six months.
I don’t know how to stop it from creeping into my thoughts. How do you let go of the bitterness and betrayal when you still have to see them every day?
How do you live with someone who once felt like the most honest trustworthy loving person you knew… and now every time you look at them all you can think is you cheated. you lied. you weren’t who I thought you were.
I just want to know how to stop feeling this way.
Last updated on:2025-09-19T19:56:44+05:30
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Hey :) I also found out that he had another one next to me, but there were signs. When I took his cell phone to send some pictures, the guy changed his password and later we argued for 4 hours because he didn't want to unlock his cell phone or admit what he was hiding. Today I received information that he has someone and honestly he disgusted me for the rest of my life. I would never touch him again and I can imagine what he did throughout the relationship and presented himself as a saint. Keep walking, such characters never change for anyone!! Girl run and never look back :)))))))
when you see him every day, what’s the hardest part—his presence itself or all the reminders of what he did?
honestly, letting go takes tiny steps. remind yourself it’s not about forgetting, it’s about protecting your peace. i journaled every time thoughts crept in—it helped me slowly breathe again. ❤️
ugh i feel this in my bones. my ex cheated too seeing him daily was TORTURE, i legit had to find ways to distance myself emotionally even while around him.