After my breakup up.. I started thinking that every girl is same, they are there just for their convenience, and show fake love until they get something out of you. But being in this community and seeing so many ladies going through break up and their stories, I think I shouldn't blame the whole gender just because I got involved with the wrong person. I think I have started to accept the feelings and the fact that sometimes, even when we try our best, it is not just in our hand to have a good relationship and it goes both ways. I think, I'm just gonna learn both good and bad out of this. May be I'll open up my heart for some person who actually deserves me and I also deserve the person.
Last updated on:2025-09-23T15:54:02+05:30
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how are you feeling now when you think about opening up again? scared, hopeful, or a mix of both?
I want to try it but don't want her to keep on fighting or blaming me. Right now I'm just trying to keep myself busy with work. I only get urges to contact her when I'm at home or on holidays. but for now I'm trying to avoid her at any cost. if she wants them she can approach me herself.
this is such a healthy way to look at it ❤️ accepting both the good and bad is how we actually heal and open ourselves to someone worthy.
yep, i’ve been there too 😔 thought every guy was the same after my breakup, but seeing stories here made me realize it’s just the wrong fit sometimes.
This really shows how mature your mindset is and from somone who struggled with the same concept of yourself but for men stating ‘men are all the same’ I do believe I also got with the wrong person who showed immaturity. As horrible as these situations are and we don’t know why they happen, I do believe they are lessons and everything happens for a reason. what’s right for you will not pass you by - keep up head up
Thanks for your wholesome massage :) I feel similar when I read about others' break-up stories. There are lots of sweet people out there and I'm sure youll meet someone who's right for you.