does anyone else believe in the last meeting theory?
that once you and someone you love have learned what you needed from each other, you'll never cross paths again. because whatever you needed to teach each other is done. doesnt matter if you live 10 minutes away or 10 hours away.
him and I live in the same building at our uni and I can literally see him window from my room. but since the last time we talked/saw each other, I havent seen him once. and deep down I know its done, its over. but f*ck, how can I accept that? he was such a big part of my life, even though I was a blip that didnt matter to him. how the hell do you come to terms that I'll never see him again, talk to him again, be with him again..?
Last updated on:2025-09-23T07:35:04+05:30
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have you tried giving yourself a small ritual or moment to say goodbye, even if it’s just to yourself?
me was accepting that some people’s chapters are done, even if the pages are still visible. it’s painful but letting go of the “what ifs” slowly makes space for you. ❤️
ugh yes i’ve felt this 😭 i kept walking past my ex in class for weeks after we broke up. seeing them so close but untouchable hurts like hell, but eventually it starts to feel normal… ish.
i had an experience too, with my pastv6 years relationship
Yeah I do believe in it, I've had a similar experience. it's the strangest thing but I think the theory is right. going through it right now so I know how you feel, it feels so weird that you won't ever see someone who you loved more than anything again. I don't know how you come to terms with that, but I think over time you just accept it for what it is because you can't control what others do. If it's meant to be it will be, i might just be some stranger commenting here but I wish you all the best and I know how hard it must feel right now. 🫶🏻