but I would still like to get answers (closure). Why was he not just honest with me, why ghosting but keeping tabs on social media, did he ever liked me? -_-
Last updated on:2025-09-24T05:44:10+05:30
44 days no contact
but I would still like to get answers (closure). Why was he not just honest with me, why ghosting but keeping tabs on social media, did he ever liked me? -_-
Last updated on:2025-09-24T05:44:10+05:30
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what would real closure look like for you — a simple explanation, an apology, or just knowing you tried and can move on?
An honest explanation about what happened. Eventually, an apology. That would make me feel valued as a person, even if things don't work out
if you want answers, ask once, clear and calm. prepare yourself they might not give the truth. your peace matters more than getting validation from them.
i’ve been there. my ex ghosted but kept watching my stories and i spiraled, wondering if i was the crazy one. hearing the truth from someone else finally started to unclench my chest. ❤️
me and my ex broke up on a bad note after being together. we both weren't toxic and really loved eachother. but I just felt terrible for breaking up with her on a bad note and I know she felt the same way, so after 2 months I tried reaching out to her and we both had a nice conversation. I suggested getting back together but she didn't wanted that. altho talking to her did get me the closure I was looking for. atleast to some extent. but that's just me and my ex, idk about your ex and how your relationship was.
maybe U should reach out maybe U shouldn't. it really depends on your ex and there mind. forr me I knew that much that if i reach out she respects me enough to atleast have a decent conversation with me. so that's why I reached out. and she did questioned alot of my answers and told me that she could never hate me for all the wonderful memories we both shared.
to be completely honest with U idk if reaching out to her was a good thing or not.
positives:
I got to talk to her and say good bye properly and get to hear her side.
she told me she loves me and could never hate me.
she told me all her friends remember me in a good way.
she still has all the things I ever gave her.
negatives:
moving on from someone genuinely good is soo much harder then someone toxic and maybe that's why I'm here.
thanks for sharing your experience! sounds like you two respect and care for each other, despite things not working out romantically. i'm a bit sorry that it's not the same, in my case, with this person I was trying to get closure from.