me and my ex didn't dates for long. infact we only dated for 3 months. but those 3 months I can't describe. we instantly clicked. she understood me. she loved me. she loved everything about me and I did too. we both shared alot in common and instantly knew that we both would be amazing together. I met her siblings, her friends, her parents (it's a huge deal in our country and culture to be dating someone and meeting there friends and family).
despite just being with this girl for only 3 months I genuinely loved her. in a way I've never loved any of my previous partners. and whats different is that I know she loved me did. there wasn't a shadow of doubt or a lie.
but one day we had a fight. a stupid fight that caused me to get mad. and I'm not the type of person who likes to argue and whenever a conflict occurs I just want to end it. but she dragged that fighhty for hours which caused me to get frustrated and say stuff that i shouldn't have. shortly after we both did made up and apologized to eachother. but after a few days she came to me and told me she can't be with me cuz she keeps thinking about the fight and the way I acted. I tried apologizing to her, explaining myself and everything. to be honest I didn't even said anything bad or called her names like that. but ofcourse maybe it's not A big thing to me but to her it's a big deal and I understand that. she said that "she feels guilty for not being able to give me the love that I give her. it feels terrible knowing that your happy but I'm still stuck on the fight, I tried being a good girlfriend to U like before but I just can't let go and forget and it's affecting me and I don't wanna let it affect our relationship"
so she wanted a breakup. i tried everything but she wouldn't let the thought of breakup go.
so we broke up.......
and here I am still thinking about her, about our memories and everything. it feels so stupid knowing that I'm this hung up over someone who I only knew for a couple of months. but it is what it is .....
Last updated on:2025-09-23T15:01:42+05:30
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do you think what hurts more is losing her, or losing the feeling of being fully understood and loved like that?”
both actually. but losing her more
“the thing that helped me was stopping the ‘but it was only 3 months’ thought. short doesn’t mean shallow. your feelings are valid. don’t beat yourself up for still thinking about her.”
“man i feel this. i had a 2 month thing that wrecked me harder than a 2 year relationship. it wasn’t about time, it was the intensity. when it clicks like that, even a short bond feels like forever. i still remember the little fights that ended it all.”
I know. I had a relationship that lasted 3 years and this relationship only lasted 3 months. but these 3 months were soo much more then anything I ever experienced. it's just sad. but I don't hold anything bad against her.
I just wish we could've handled things differently and maybe she couldve seen that I indeed was the one for her