actions speak louder then words, he was acting distant for a long time. i told him, all he had to do was tell me he was done and i would leave him alone. every argument, he has yet to say it but the way he acts, i know hes done. hes either too much of a coward to say so or keeping me around as a back up for when he needs something. im so humiliated that i keep running back just because he wont end it properly, i always look so stupid.
Last updated on:2025-09-21T19:40:51+05:30
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I’ve just left my ex for this reason, he was everything I wanted, friends for years, then together as a couple and changed all of a sudden. He lied to me for months pretending to be happy let me move out of my home into his to only now be without him or a home. These boys NOT men are cowards and rather than own up to their emotions they suppress, lie and pretend which is so cruel.
I’m a firm believer of the ‘let them theory’ let people show you who they are. let them disrespect you, let them move on, let them ignore you, let them show their immaturity because this gives you validation of who this person is. . It allows someone to truly show you who THEY are. . so let him be who he is and show you who he truly is because in reality you will heal better and know you will deserve someone who would never treat you this way and never make you second guess you were the problem. It takes two people to equally make it work and be honest. Walk away with your head up high and never having this ever again in our next relationships - hopefully I can take my own advice too
im actually reading the book "let them" and it has helped ALOT. i couldnt agree more. thank you ❤️
@Thiskris92 that is a brilliant book 📕
Hi, my ex is like that as well. He's most likely is an Avoidant. Maybe you should do some research about Avoidants in a relationship. You could get the closure u need, to not chase back or to chase back.
100% thats what it is !!!!!!
@Thiskris92 an avoidant partner is an experience from hell lol. But the more i learn their true attention, as a super empath myself, i forgave and understand. Eventho their defence mechanism is torturing to us around them
@Meowrin hes also a homeless drug addict so its super frustrating. i get so stressed and worried and he doesnt show emotion so he has no issues not answering me. its litteraly making me sick :(