In my case, I noticed that if I let any channel between us open, she will eventually come and check on me which would take away all the healing. it's best to just keep yourself away from any means of channel. Initially it will be very painful but day by day, you will start seeing good in your and will only try to get back on your feet.
no but just because it isn't the right thing to do, it doesn't mean that it's not a part of healing and moving on. the process of moving on and getting over someone sometimes could mean viewing their account and etc . for you to get over someone , you have to have to feel all the emotions that you have been bottling up overtime and that takes time 🙂
Hi. I don't think it's very healthy bc we (me as well) need to give some space for our brains to reset themselves. and being in contact with (even) contents about him is not going to help. I would recommend at least 30 days without any contact (even for social media and just looking status). Feel hugged 🤗
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are you checking their status out of habit or hope? figuring that out might make things clearer for your peace.
honestly seeing her updates while trying no contact can mess with your healing. muting or hiding her status helped me a lot.
ugh i’ve been there 😅 i went no contact but still checked his stories… it just kept me stuck for months. it’s rough
NO.
In my case, I noticed that if I let any channel between us open, she will eventually come and check on me which would take away all the healing. it's best to just keep yourself away from any means of channel. Initially it will be very painful but day by day, you will start seeing good in your and will only try to get back on your feet.
No
no but just because it isn't the right thing to do, it doesn't mean that it's not a part of healing and moving on. the process of moving on and getting over someone sometimes could mean viewing their account and etc . for you to get over someone , you have to have to feel all the emotions that you have been bottling up overtime and that takes time 🙂
No. You should give yourself space to breathe
she called after one week of no contact and was getting pissed I didn’t pick her calls nor text
Hi. I don't think it's very healthy bc we (me as well) need to give some space for our brains to reset themselves. and being in contact with (even) contents about him is not going to help. I would recommend at least 30 days without any contact (even for social media and just looking status). Feel hugged 🤗
thanks ❤️