It's been only one week but I really want to apologize to her for my side of the problems. I wish me and her could work this out but she doesn't want to try.
Last updated on:2025-09-22T22:40:40+05:30
1 week
It's been only one week but I really want to apologize to her for my side of the problems. I wish me and her could work this out but she doesn't want to try.
Last updated on:2025-09-22T22:40:40+05:30
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what’s the thing you’d want her to hear the most if she actually listened?
honestly, that we can do this if we work on it like we wanted to before
sometimes the hardest thing is holding back from reaching out. writing it down even if you never send it helped me quiet that urge a little
i felt that too. when my ex shut the door i still wanted to explain myself apologize fix things. it’s brutal wanting to try when the other person just… doesn’t
I have tried multiple times to fix things, but she doesn't care enough to even talk to me. In the end I had to realise that sometimes things are not in our control and only we can do is try to focus on ourselves and heal ourselves simultaneously.
If i were in your place i would send her a message explaining my side. Then leave it be. You've done your part of trying to fix it and after that it is her choice to accept it. If she still doesn't want to try, you should respect her decision and try to move on with the thought that you've tried and gotten it off your chest.