We broke up 15 days ago, but he didn't explicitly say the words but just said I don't have the courage to say the words. He is tired of the loops of fights. i was too but I keep getting the strength that we can work it out. he used to hold onto me whenever I thought there's no good future, we have different expectations
he said I am still here if you need me but like a friend
we haven't blocked each other
I begged him once but his answer was straight no, almost like he is going to hate me if I beg more so I stopped..but I still sometimes text and call and he replies very normally as if our relationship never happened and we started as friends and ending as friends.
Should I keep hope? I mean he hasn't blocked me
Last updated on:2025-09-23T07:53:21+05:30
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do you think you’re holding onto the “he didn’t block me” part because it feels like proof there’s still a chance?
Yeah
when i was in that place, what helped me was asking myself if i’d be ok living in limbo forever. if the answer was no, i had to start grieving for real.
I never grieved before, i don't know how one does it
i felt this in my gut. my ex also never “said the words” either, just slowly pulled away while still replying like nothing happened. it kept me stuck way longer than i should’ve been 💔
I hope after a month I forget about him and face the reality
it's the same condition as me. he hasn't blocked me too, and I used to text him sometimes after breakup. his replies was different. so I decided to stop text him and give him space. maybe you should do that too :)
Yeah he replies so small and little like I am an unknown person now.
Maybe give him space for 4 weeks? No contact and see how it goes.
2nd day of no contact. Hoping for similar strenght to move on in the next few days of this challenge for my self.
It's like I feeding my brain to hold on a little longer but I know the reality even after an year nothings gonna change