she broke up in July. I have been always trying to get her back to love me... until today. she told me she's confused and tells she isn't attracted to me anymore. but still replies me if I text her and I haven't been blocked in any of her contact. she told she doesn't love me anymore. but I promised her that I will try and not give up if this ever happened. so I'm keeping up the promise but she keeps telling me that no matter what she will not go back to me nor my efforts will make her love me. she tells I'm not her type. I loved her so much and she told me she's so grateful to have me a few months ago and now she's 😒
I don't know what to do either to give up n move on or not. I'm so confused in ruining my mental peace and my health.
I wish I had someone I could speak out my feelings.
and I hope the person reading this is loved and blessed. :)
thank you for your time.
Cheers :)
Last updated on:2025-09-24T03:47:27+05:30
Comments (8)
you think you’re holding on because of the promise you made to her, or because of what you really want for yourself
I guess it is the both. I promised her things and I have worked for it and finally have them but she isn't here now :(
when someone flat out says “i don’t love you,” believe them. i know it hurts but chasing only wrecked my health. what helped me was pulling back, even when every part of me wanted to reach out.
i felt this in my chest. my ex said the same words to me — “you’re not my type” after i gave EVERYTHING. i kept trying for months and it almost broke me completely.
I'm sorry to hear that. how are you dealing with it now? I don't understand why they have to be in a relationship when they know their type way before getting into one.
trust u will find someone way better u are a beautiful soul and your true soul mate is out there waiting for u someone u don’t have to fight for or feel this way about
Remeber your worth. you deserve someone who loves you as much as you love them. start to love yourself and begin your journey of healing your heart. be strong and know when to let go so you don’t destroy your self
thank you for your uplifting words. it makes me in a state of confusion wether I should give her the time to realise or just move on. probably won't find someone as her. and yeah most of the time it was me giving in all the efforts to hold on.