How can someone just move on and completely remove you from there life like nothing ever happened. I did one small thing but I didn’t give her space but how can she just remove me from her life cause I didn’t give her space.
Last updated on:2025-09-24T22:48:03+05:30
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do you feel like she moved on really fast, or is it more that she just shut you out completely? curious how that felt in the moment
i’ve noticed sometimes people cope by cutting off completely. it doesn’t make it fair, but giving yourself small steps to accept it helped me
damn i get this so much… i went through the same with my ex. one mistake and suddenly i was erased. it hurts like hell ❤️🩹
Sounds like an avoidant to me. My ex did that to me too a month ago. Im so tired of chasing and asking for closure. Stay away from these people that need "space", if they love u, the only safe space they need is around u.
this is the hardest for me. I know that the ‘moving on’ is just a distraction from the hurt, or a bandaid, if you will. it doesn’t change that someone else is there living my old life and receiving his love the way I did though. you have to just let go of this part and remember you’re distancing yourself for a reason.
sometimes when we care more then they do, it pushes them away. going through the same thing. like i never existed.
Sometimes we meet people who are meant to be nothing more than a lesson as the days go by. Disappointment, pain, weakness, and longing all teach us how to grow stronger as we age. I too once considered him my safe haven, but he erased me from his life as if I were nothing—over a small mistake that had a solution. Yet I learned that if a person truly values you and fears hurting your heart, they would never do that. On the contrary, they would confront you, get upset with you, maybe even curse you if you were wrong—but abandoning you and cutting you out of their life has nothing to do with love. That is only torment, and you must move past it.