day 2 and im feeling ok. i just have to remember what i dont miss. i dont miss the worrying, the anxiety, the feeling of being annoying or unwanted. the fear of getting angry replies or blaming everything on me and how i always hurt him when it was the other way around. i feel so much more relaxed with his number blocked and no more social media. it was hard at first but i dont find myself constantly checking blocked messages. dont get me wrong. this is like the 3rd time ive tried to cut contact but i can honestly say, i feel more at peace. hurt but not all stressed out.
Last updated on:2025-09-24T22:49:42+05:30
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that’s huge progress! what’s been helping you stay relaxed instead of checking his messages?
working, reading, painting, cleaning... lol
sounds like you’re really noticing the difference no-contact makes. keep focusing on your peace, even small wins matter
yes omg i’ve been there too 😭 the first few days without checking his messages felt impossible but it DOES get lighter, promise
hey! it's also day 2 for me! everything will get better! always remember the red flags and everything that you didn't like about him, just a reminder of the things you never want in a guy. cheers to slow progress and healing 🥂
I know it can be very difficult. Just believe in the process, you are gonna be so much fine if just manage to control yourself and stay you stay away... but I would say, this is also not in our hand to control ourselves... it's just we need to wait for that day to come, that one day when we no longer need to control ourselves.
day 2 for me as well!! hooray! we did it! I did think of her at times but I tried to stalk her socials less than before. went out alone for a car meet and I just feel better and yes not stressed or anxious as before. we can do it! we will!