past few days have been good, urges to contact her have started to fade away. I have started to enjoy work again. I have started to talk again. I am slowly realising what I'm capable of. I have started to believe in myself. Past few days is the first time in heart that I have felt that I do not want her anymore. I want people in my life who love me the way I deserve. she has started to become ordinary.
Last updated on:2025-09-27T12:04:57+05:30
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Good for you. I hope it would be the same for me someday.
what was the first sign for you that she was starting to feel ordinary? curious how that change came for you
it’s wild how the mind flips—focusing on yourself, work, and the people who actually care really shifts everything. keep riding this wave
vyes, i’ve been there… after months of constant thinking about my ex, i suddenly realized i didn’t NEED her anymore and it felt so freeing
How long it's have been? do you have any tips for us?
it's been 50 days since our breakup... in the initial phase I was so much pain... I kept quiet all the time. I think eventually there comes a time when we realise that there are much greater things in life. mine was the first relationship I ever had and also for 4 years. the break up shattered my soul. but pas few days I have been keeping myself occupied with work so no longer time to think about her. I have noticed that I miss her only when I'm alone at home. I don't think there's any cheat sheet which will help us. the realisation has to come by itself.
@WildSun535 I got it, Thank you so much 🥺