After 32 years of relationship, marriage, 3 children, we have been separated for a year now, without any communication for 6 months. The divorce process has begun in adversarial proceedings. For so many years I was blind, I forgave a lot and slowly I see that all these years he has been making fun of me, apart from my children I don't know what was real. I don't want to see him, I'm sick of him but the mockery weighs on my soul, how could he do this to me, when I gave him everything? Tell me a way!I want not to feel anything!
Last updated on:2025-09-25T14:02:09+05:30
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How can he, after all he's done, not be ashamed to talk to his children?
Just know that it's not you, it's him. There is nothing wrong with you. Everything happens for a reason and God has better things planned for you. Now onwards and upward! You got this!
stay strong ! forgive him, even if you cannot make the effort and start imagining the life you want back
I'm trying to be because i don't want my smallest child watching me break down, sometimes i am very good but there are other moments that hurts a lot, i know that he doesn't deserve it but I can't help it, I'm feeling sorry for myself for letting him hurt my soul!
All these years I did this, I made sure everything was perfect, that nothing was missing, I couldn't work because I was raising the children and taking care of the house, and now I'm 51 years old, I live in a small village that has no job opportunities and I'm trying to make ends meet!
aww im so sorry you're dealing with sooo much.. be strong you got this.. I wish I also felt nothing but its what makes us the amazing people we are .. remember your a blessing to your kids so show them how to be strong 💪