hi ! :) if some of you were in a relationship with an avoidant and went no contact because you

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hi ! :) if some of you were in a relationship with an avoidant and went no contact because you couldn’t handle their mess anymore, did they comeback at some point ? if so, when ?

Last updated on:2025-09-25T12:11:20+05:30

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Meowrin
Meowrin 5 mths ago

Not worth it. Find someone who emotionally available. Someone who doesn't take us for granted. We secure/anxious people worth more than these emotionally immature people

ZappyWave665
ZappyWave665 5 mths ago

Not worth it, they come back to pull away again. it's a mess. if you recognize it now dont let them back.

Flowerboy
Flowerboy 5 mths ago

me, but she broke up with me and its been a month and some change of no contact and she messaged me yesterday. I just deleted it and am pushing forward. I don't need or want that in my life anymore

rossyMoon
rossyMoon 5 mths ago

LGTB relationship// me, 3 months ago. she is avoidant. i broke up with her because she never had time for me and i was always the last Option. After 90 days she sent me Per post some stuff i forgot at her Place like Soap (opened bottles ) and toothbrush… I wrote her back she didn’t need to send me those things back. then we started talking again. I started to feel bad and asked her to come back with me. nos she is avoidant again …

whooteee
whooteee 5 mths ago

me.. broke up aug 1st..did the push pull till 17 days ago and now no contact. she doesn't care and I dont think will ever reach back out even if she did it that month and a half before... she jumped into another talking stage with someone else right after prob had him there before the discard.