Asking what should I do?

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I broke up with my ex on July 11. We broke up because he suddenly told me to break up without any reason while relationship is completely fine without any reason. He said he wants to stay alone and we cannot work out in the future and he might lose interest on me. So, I accepted and we didn't have contact for two weeks. After one week of our break up, he changed the same profile picture with a girl on Tik tok but I found out after two weeks of our break up. But it is not what I think and he blocked me on Tik Tok. I believed him and we shared our life updates sometimes. But his replies are too cold and distant and I need to wait more than 8 hours for a one reply. And again in September, he and that girl posted the same story on instagram and they are going out. He said again no and they are just friends. Again, I trusted him and I begged him to get back together and he said no. He blamed me that I didn't ask about his life during the break up but on the other hand, there were no days without crying for me. But we met outside and he is acting distant and don't accept closeness but it went well. We slept on the same bed together and but no physical closeness. I asked him so did we break up, are you my ex now? He said he doesn't know. So, are we in relationship now. He avoided that question so I said I am gonna post our Anniversary on instagram and then he said why? And we didn't get back together yet. He is still updating about his life updates everyday. He blocked me on Tik Tok two times and he didn't accept my fri request on facebook and instagram. What should I do? Should I just walk away? What is happening with him? Am I still on his mind? Can we get back together. I am so confusing and depressed over four months.

Last updated on:2025-09-26T16:05:06+05:30

Comments (4)

CozyLuv259
CozyLuv259 5 mths ago

I think he has other options and still keeps you at arm length. My advice to you is to mirror his actions. Work on yourself and let it go. Someone who cares about you wouldnt ever hurt you like that. Good luck stay strong

StarrySkies
StarrySkies 5 mths ago

Walk away. Never look back. DO NOT EVER SETTLE FOR SOMETHING LIKE THAT. A guy like that will never be sure about anything, not just in terms of romantic relationships. You do not deserve a guy who confuses you with whatever wishy washy things he has going on in his life. I understand you that you may be feeling confused, hurt, and sad but those things are exactly what you need to feel as of the moment. Trust that everything will work out 💟

StarrySkies
StarrySkies 5 mths ago

And please refrain from wondering or even caring about he is thinking or doing. It will be difficult at first but when you acknowledge that there are just things beyond your control, the weight will be a little lighter.

Meowrin
Meowrin 5 mths ago

Sounds like he's finding another option but too scared of being single so he keeping u as an option... U know him better so make wisw decision before too late