almost 3 weeks.. not a word .. still blocked .. after being told im so amazing and perfect.. that she never emotionally connected with anyone like me and 3 days after a I love you... was discarded and dragged a month after with hot and cold conversations.. she rebounded and doesn't think of me im hurt ik I shouldn't want her back.. but im so lost rn with out her .. ik it because I have nothing else going on no distractions.. I wrapped my life into her... watched her kids hockey games and skating practices bc they asked .. played games with them all everyday for hours.. and now nothing just reminders of fortnite skins and emotes and it hurts... today's going to be a hard one
Last updated on:2025-09-28T12:18:59+05:30
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I read all your posts and my situation is similar I’m an empath and got discarded by a fearful avoidant. being discarded hurts a lot and that’s what makes the healing take longer than usual. mine ghosted me didn’t block but the ghosting was so abrupt and unexpected. he was cheating and doing stuff with other girls but I let it slide as I knew he had childhood trauma and thought I could “fix” him is I was patient. the main point is we will heal but it will take longer I’m 31day no contact and feeling considerably better. but yes u need to try as much as possible to focus on yourself. did u try to sign up for the gym i started pilates and the days i go I feel the best. start with stuff like that should help. hope this helps u are not alone and doing great i feel i a a special soul too ❤️
thanks this is so sweet of you.. I signed up for therapy in weds. Im going to start running in the mornings.. they say the avoidants always come back im hoping mine does not... this app does 100 needs to have free messages so people with similar storys can talk and help each other
@whooteee that’s great you should do things for your for sure it really helps I was in a dark place the first week hardly slept. they do say they come back he definitely when back to some exes he also ghosted (red flag for you..) but usually this happens around 2months or
so and the good thing is if we work on ourselves we will be so unbothered by it and this is what I need to do and I with the same for your 😊