my three roommates, who are my closest friends, are all EXTREMELY bf focused. like it is their number one priority and the center of their lives. and even when I have had a bf I have never been like that. like my friends and school and life are all still high priorities to me.
this year is our last year of uni so I was hoping on weekends we'd actually hangout. wrong. every weekend they all leave to stay at their bfs places. they all go on group dates, hangouts, etc. and im not invited, nor do i want to go to 'couples wine night.' it just makes me feel so alone and left out. and then part of me wants to reach out to him, bc he may have been awful but at least it was something.
Last updated on:2025-09-30T02:02:03+05:30
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are you craving just company or is it him specifically you’re thinking about? sometimes knowing that helps untangle what your heart really needs
it’s okay to feel left out, don’t guilt yourself for wanting connection. maybe plan something for yourself or with friends who actually show up for you
ugh i feel this so hard 😭 my roommates were always couple-obsessed too, left me feeling invisible on weekends. it really sucks feeling alone in your own space
so what did you do