apparently he is sick and got admitted for a day. shall I text asking how he is?
I got to know abt all this from a friend.
I am scared what will happen if I text..will I spiral back to day 1 and all my healing will go in vain or will I be fine? pls suggest
Last updated on:2025-09-30T16:10:22+05:30
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what do you feel more scared of — that he won’t reply at all, or that he will and it’ll pull you back in?
That it will pull me back in
i think somtime its okay to search the things that someone we love but you have to be more powerful.if you have some feeling like that thats okay ..because people be like people but we dont want to be like people thats not us.their quality is not ours.thats them and this is us.so its okay to search him.but if he didnt reply within two days.accept it.be more stronger make your heart stronger accept it ..and delete the message ..if he replies ask him about the situation dont talk too much ..just say stay safe ..and let them be..🙂you dont want to get him again to your life.but you just relaxing your mind and proving your quialty they will regret even after the breakup she searched me.like that.let people be like them ..but dont fade your humanity your kind heart.but be stronger with your emotions ..♥️
either you have to hide and think all the day to day of that thats why i said ask him ..dont expect anything just send a message ..even your mind relaxed thinking of "i just sent a message he wont talk.."and accept it ..your mind will be free..😇
@Mahee78 thank you for this all the message. I actually thought about this and texted him. and he left me on seen. it's been a day. I think he will not respond because he did not want many people to know but I got to know by chance. so I think I don't know how to react if he do not respond
@Mahee78 also I think it is fine even if he do not respond. this is the closure I needed and now I will move on and be a silent well-wisher for him that is all I can do
if you feel texting will rip the wound open again, maybe let someone else check in for you. your peace matters too.
i went through this exact thing when my ex landed in the hospital. i texted once and instantly felt like i was back at square one. it’s so hard when you still care
True. it's better to not reach out even if we feel like it's the end. it's for the best. I did not want to go back spiralling so I did not text him but asked our friends how he is doing
Do what you feel is right...Does he have family or friends with him? If he does you know that he has their support. Consider how you'd feel if he responds and also if he doesn't. Not contacting him can be the kindest thing for both of you.
Yeah I won't contact. thank youu for responding