we were in one and half year relationship ..all that time,we only have few moments to be happy.always we have arguments ,my explanations make him silent ..sometimes at least one week maximum ..somtimes he was talking to me but no any love words just talking..I stayed like that 3 months once .I only gave him love.i talk lovely ..one day i saw all his university batch were save under his phone and some resign employees girls were also saved.I asked why ? even he dont go university now I think 15,20 girls were saved.so we had a argument and we didnt talk to each other and then he delete all the numbers .Same thing happend to me but i dont have many friends but he got silent and i delete them by myself because he was upset ..and also he using all the social media things and i wont ..because that was also a problem to him.so i delete them.he has two iphones..until now i didnt save any boy from that day .I went to university 1st time and i met some friends they were younger than me 3 younger brothers and 4girls .they made a grp .That moment they made a grp i informed him thinking thats my responsibility and i told him i am saving there numbers also..I thought that was my responsibility to update him about new friends and the grp they made.after that day until today he didnt talk to me like before ....he was updateing me sometimes .sometimes not .he only send one or two messages per day.he stopped loving me .but he came follow me upto my home after office and when i go home he go.When i asked 1st he told me he delete girls numbers because of me.but i save their numbers.but didnt remember i was also delete my friends numbers before.🙂until today he didnt love me .he added some uni girls to his snap also.i also understand he wont love me any more and i also accept it ,i am really tired of begging him love.but my heart wont let him go.what can i do?🙂i cant stop thinking of him.because i see him daily .🙂i trapped between this situation .sugget me good things to keep my mind stable.and gain stronger heart.😔
Last updated on:2025-10-01T09:15:44+05:30
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you think you’re holding on because you still love him… or because you’re scared of what life looks like without him?
both things ....I am scared of what if i cant heal because i see him everyday ..
😑🫠😪i just applied so many vacancies also but still no update .he is my office college .😑😔🙂
no
when my head wouldn’t shut off about my ex, i started journaling every single thought. like word vomit. it didn’t fix the pain but it got the weight out of my brain for a bit.
Thank you ..I also started journaling .♥️
i felt this in my chest. i used to delete friends just to “prove” i loved him more, while he never did the same. i lost myself in the process, and damn it took forever to feel like me again.
this is true ..100%🙂
this is very painfull ..🙂😪how you actually live like that ..all men are like that nor ? my one also texted his ex and answerd calls the reason told me that she is balckmailing him..because his religion he have to marry her if he talks only i involved and because of me he stopped and ignored her calls ..i dont know what iswrong what is right but i fogave him that day.🙂..hmmm i know your feelings.being in a relationship is easy loving someone is okay but pure love isnt hard .giving someone love without a single fault or issue .I think no one can live like that .that is not timepassing .😪
Just think that he already cheated by saving numbers of other girls and add them on his snap even though it made you uncomfortable. If you don't leave now, it would be harder in the future. I stayed in the relationship with someone like that for 5 years. He never changed. He is sweet, caring, and has a provider mindset. He already planned our future and saved money for it even though it took half of his monthly salary. In the eyes of all people, he is an ideal partner. But the problem is his wandering eyes. His cheater mindset didn't change at all and always think that microcheating is harmless and that I'm crazy for being mad. I only left him few days ago and had a lot of realizations.