So… my ex finally blocked me. We’ve been broken up for 8 months and he never blocked me until I recently asked for closure. I just wanted to understand why he treated me the way he did why he never fought for me.
I guess asking those questions was too much because now I’m blocked. And it hurts. It feels like he’s punishing me like I’m the one who did something wrong. But for years he neglected me made me feel like I didn’t matter.
He hurt me. And now he’s acting like I’m the problem. All I wanted was a conversation. Just a few answers so I could finally let go. But instead I got silence.
Last updated on:2025-10-01T07:09:24+05:30
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same. I asked for transparency to just move on. it’s confusing because if they don’t want you why can’t they be honest about things? I’ve even told my ex just tell me your moved on and your happy and I’ll leave you alone and she will just ignore me. it makes you wonder what they really want and keeps you hanging on. which is maybe why they do it
i feel this so hard… did you get a chance to tell him how his neglect made you feel before he blocked you?
it’s so painful, i know. sometimes the silence says everything you need to hear—he’s showing his true colors. journaling helped me process it without needing answers.
my ex ghosted me after i asked similar questions and it felt like getting punched in the gut, even though i just needed closure.