why do they tell you they want to try again and they love you but then hide there social media and say they don’t use it, talk down to you, make you feel so lonely, they stand you up and not see u for months, make you feel like you can’t let go but at the same time they show no care towards u leaving…
why do they make u feel so lonely and ugly but then at the same time u want to stay and see if they change..😑
Last updated on:2025-10-01T23:22:02+05:30
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you’re holding on more to the person they could be than the person they actually show up as?
when i catch myself hoping they’ll change, i remind myself of how long it’s been the same. people can say “i love you” all day, but if their actions keep cutting you down, that’s the real answer.
he’d tell me i was his everything, then ghost me for weeks and act like i was asking for too much. the push and pull messes with your head so bad. i hated myself but still waited for him.
Don't keep your love on sale. Value it much more than diamonds of platinum. Keep your boundaries. Let them prove themselves to you. Cold text them if they come back. Don't give them what they came for and then see their reaction. They didn't come back for love
they just want validation from you, they want the attention and effort yoy are giving to them. once a cheater, it will always be a cheater unless it would have the effort to change and face the unhealed traumas they have.
They were so confident that you'll come back anytime. Just leave and they will realize what they lost. Been there and saw that they never change.