He slept by my side three months, introduced me to his family, took me on family trips, and then he started to dim. He didnt want to speak with me anymore, tried to ignore me. At the end he said that we were too different and there was no future for us. He left and didn't turn back. I feel stuck in the good moments and his best version.
Last updated on:2025-10-03T16:10:00+05:30
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2 years of my life. now hes dating the next girl. from January till august i was crashing out. lost weight almost committed suic**e but trust me girl u will b fine. you will get your spark back 💗✨
I felt like dying one week and then it was ups and downs. He talked to me bcs well he had clothes in my house, he still owes me moneda and whenever we talk he speaks to me maybe as if nothing ever happened. He shows me the new things he has and Im just expected to react with dignity. He is calm and over but he makes me crumble when he does that. Im much more stable at this point. I can make videos, look pretty and smile normally. Its just in my head and my heart where I have this dim place. I want to shut down that place altogether
@ChillWave767 heres a tip girly. be fine without him. crash out in ur house scream cry write things down but keep your head high in public. after a while you will be fine. it took me 8 months but here i am. happier healthier ❤️I hope you will be fine my love
you’re holding onto him, or more onto how he made you feel in those good moments?
Naturally, Im holding onto the good memories. I've had lots of time to analyze our relationship and how he was not being his best version for our relationship and the end of it. Not have the image of what he used to be. I use that to help me let go
what usually helps me is reminding myself the “best version” they showed was only one part, not the whole truth. otherwise i end up stuck loving a ghost.
Thank you, I've been trying to do the same. I just have some days when everything feels so overwhelming and it feels like a relapse from an addiction. Today I feel so much better and really clearheaded about the good and the bad of both of us during that relationship
reading this feels like my last breakup. he did all the family dinners, cuddles, talking about the future... then one day he flipped a switch and said he “wasn’t sure.” i kept replaying the good version of him in my head, like that’s who he really was.
Im working on stopping the replay as much as my mind allows me. I even got a tip of what to do when Im too overwhelmed and crying. I hope it gets better soon.
was there someone else involved?
I honestly dont know. It semestre that at the moment we broke up there was none. But two weeks after we broke up he started posting thing about falling in love again. Even if there was no one else at that moments and there is one now, it means that I did not hold an important place in his heart
@ChillWave767 my ex started doing this to. she claims she’s not seeing anyone but she reposts things on TikTok about men, and having a man who makes her feel feminine and exc. so it’s confusing.
@ChillWave767 I was seeing someone where that a broken man can't not be in a relationship.
something like this happened to me aswell just that I never knew his parents but then after a relationship of 1 years and 8 months he now told me that we were just friends I was the one taking care the whole thing serious đź’”
@Jessicah we were girlfriend and boyfriend, counting the months together and planning a life together, it just seems that it was easy to forget those things for him. Probably a broken man doesnt know how to be by himself and its okay, I need to move on and him potentially being with someone else reinforces to me that he wasnt the one for me