guys does it get any better?ðŸ˜ðŸ’”
Last updated on:2025-10-03T10:24:57+05:30
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guys does it get any better?ðŸ˜ðŸ’”
Last updated on:2025-10-03T10:24:57+05:30
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what’s been the hardest part for you since it ended? the silence, the memories, or something else?
The memoriesðŸ˜ðŸ’”
whenever I think about the past I cry hard and I start asking myself questions
then I start connecting dots
yeah it does get better, but it’s slow and messy. what helped me was small stuff, like going out for a walk or texting a friend instead of sitting alone with the spiral. you don’t have to feel okay right now to be on your way there
yes it will have some patience.
it does. I had to see my ex today because we had an exam and to be completely honest, I felt nothing. nothing except the small amount of hate from first seeing him but it only lasted for about a minute. I used to not even be able to think about him without crying. but after the amount of time I've had, I've realized how cruel he was to me and I know better than to grieve the loss of him when he doesnt even deserve it. so yes it does get better, it's just up to you how long it takes you. it's different for everyone. just let yourself feel sad when you need to or angry, don't block out your emotions because that will only make it worse. just allow yourself to feel what you need to feel and with time your heart and mind will heal.
it gets better but the question is when will it be completely better and there isn’t on definite answer some need weeks some months some ever years depends on relationship and how u are processing the breakup being in contact checking thier
socials and ruminating makes it last longer. this isn’t my first break up and I learnt from the other and noticed I’m healing much faster this time around.
it will 🫶
I hope it does. I can't do it anymore. The relationship has now been over for 6 weeks but we had contact. I can't get any further. Last Monday, the contact was stopped for a while (or always) to build in peace. Because I keep hoping.
But it is soulbreaking.
honestly it does someday and someday again you go back to the same phase. eventually it starts effecting a little less
I feel like it doesn’t. and it’s scary because there’s people on here who are like 100 SOMETHIng days of no contact still struggling. that scares the hell out of me. I don’t wanna feel this way for months. that sounds like a death sentence