My relationship ended six weeks ago. We kept in touch, but that stopped last Monday because I kept hoping.
I was pregnant, wanted to keep it, but he talked me into not doing it, something I deeply regret. A week after the abortion and his promises, he ended things.
Within two weeks he had already moved on, even using dating apps.
Now I feel lost, lonely and heartbroken, with no distractions, no job, no friends. Only my three-year-old son keeps me going, and I’m grateful for him.
Last updated on:2025-10-03T02:50:50+05:30
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have you been able to talk to anyone close about what happened? like even one friend or family member? sometimes just telling someone out loud makes it feel less heavy.
I have no one.. thats why i am here 😬😇.
i went through something kinda like this. i had an abortion too because my ex kept saying it would “save us” and then he left anyway. it’s been over a year and that decision still stings. reading your post gave me flashbacks, i’m so sorry you’re feeling this
How awful that you have experienced this too. You always carry the grief of an abortion with you.
I think it's so stupid of myself to be talked in to this. while I also wanted to do it alone. But he knew exactly what to say to get me there.
Maybe it was for the best. if he had stayed with you and you kept the baby he would show his true colors soon, maybe he would resent you and the baby. It would have been unhealty. They always look like they moved on but we dont know for sure. You need to focus on yourself and your 3 year old. There will come another chance for you to experience love again and if its suitable maybe expand your family with someone who is indeed willing and worthy.
Maybe you're right. I always love someone too much. It is difficult to let them go.
Is this 3 year old his son?
No this one was from another relationship. is not in the picture.
No from this relationship i got pregnant but he didn't want to have it now. in the future he did want to he said and i believed him. And if there was a possibility that we could do it together, I would adopt it. . So i did.. got a abortion 🥲.