I am new here. I need to do no contact with my ex. We were in a long distance relationship, so we communicated mainly through different apps. He removed me from most of them, except from 2. I decided to keep them to not erase the pictures.
For weeks I was posting quotes, selfies, my outfits, because I knew he would look at them. It was just a tiny bit of attention that I liked to receive.
Last Monday I lost my dog :( I posted quotes about the heartbreak of losing a pet. It worked, next day he reached out to say “sorry for your loss”, that was it.
I know we can’t be together. I just wanted his attention. But I have to stop begging.
I am not posting anything for him to see. if I post something it will be without my face or my body. I don’t want him to see me anymore. I hope I can stay this way for a while.
I need to heal myself.
Last updated on:2025-10-04T02:37:34+05:30
Comments (5)
have you thought about removing those last two apps too? i know it’s tough, but it could help you focus fully on your own healing
I thought about it a lot. I hope one day to be brave to finally block him from those apps.
it’s brave that you’re deciding to post only for yourself now. even small boundaries like this help you reclaim your space and start healing 💛
i used to post stuff hoping my ex would notice too… it’s HARD letting go of that tiny attention, but you’re already taking the right step
I tried this way
Accepted I loved him
Accepted I tried everything
Accepted that he also has every way to reach out to me
Accepted that he doesn't want to be involved anymore
Accepted relationship goes both ways
He is an adult too, he made his choice through his mind. He is not a kid. His actions and choices are his alone. I'll forge my different path. I won't let my obsession dictate my rest of the choices.
i would say stop yourself from taking action. Wait for 2 months and accept all the truth then decide what you want to do.