He blocked me on Instagram today just 14 days after our breakup ending a relationship that lasted three years. Was it really that easy for him to move on? This is the same person who once told me he loved me more than my own parents. But parents don’t walk away. He did.
Now I’m left questioning everything. Did he ever truly love me or was it all just infatuation? I feel worthless like I wasted three years of my life on someone who couldn’t even give me his time. When he was jobless I stood by him. Now that he’s moving forward he says he has no time for me and wants to leave everything behind. Was I just a burden to him?
I was there during his lowest moments and now he tells me we’re not meant to be. He wants to be alone and I’m left feeling broken.
This was my first relationship. I wanted it to be my last. Now I don’t think I can love again. I hate love. And I hate that I trusted someone more than I trusted my own parents.
Last updated on:2025-10-04T07:02:03+05:30
Comments (3)
have you been able to talk to anyone offline about what happened, like a friend or sibling? sometimes saying it out loud helps make it real, instead of looping in your own head.
the way he left says more about him than about you. it’s brutal, but sometimes blocking isn’t about moving on, it’s about avoiding the guilt. you’re not worthless. you showed up. that love you gave wasn’t wasted, it just landed on someone who couldn’t hold it.
my ex did the exact same thing… i stayed through his depression, helped him get on his feet, and the minute life got better he blocked me and said he “needed space.” it’s a special kind of pain when you’ve been someone’s anchor and they just cut the rope.