if he broke up with me, will he come back to me.
i feel like we both can be better for each other pnly after we heal separately.
Last updated on:2025-10-06T13:52:50+05:30
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if he broke up with me, will he come back to me.
i feel like we both can be better for each other pnly after we heal separately.
Last updated on:2025-10-06T13:52:50+05:30
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do you feel like you’d want him back no matter what, or only if you saw real change in how he shows up for you?
honestly, both.
sometimes the best thing is just giving it time without overthinking the outcome. if it’s meant, it’ll circle back. if not, you’ll still have your own healing.
i get that. my ex broke up with me when i was at my lowest and i kept holding onto this hope that maybe after we both healed, we’d find our way back. it’s hard living in that “maybe” space.
I feel the same. I claim it. and I know she has daddy issues and I didn't know how to help her. but yes. I healed. it's her time to heal and when she's back, imma give her the best ☺️
so how do i know it's truly over?
this is the third time we broke up. I've done some things im not proud of and i am genuinely sorry for everything. i thought he forgave me, but i was clearly just being delusional. Dont get me wrong, i realised all my faults and really tried to make him happy. at first , it was great, we got back together in june and had to do long distance. he came back on Monday and he told me he missed me, and that he loves me and we did it. prior to this, we were kind of rocky. so imagine how i felt when he told the next daythat he doesn't love me enough to try and make this work. he told me, maybe in the future, if God heals him maybe God will bring us back together. and i dont want to hold on that hope. it hurts, literally. he was my person. i cant imagine my future without him amd it's so hatd letting go.
so basically, i want both of us to heal and start over the right way. but i dont know if that's worth waiting for.
it hurts so much but letting go is much easier then holding on
I wonder the same thing. people say ex’s always come back just when is the question. it doesn’t make me feel any better because I don’t want her to come back 6 months from now lol I want it now. I think it takes time to realize they can’t get what you gave from someone else though. at some point it really all is about time. I know me and my ex aren’t good for each other right now, and we will just keep hurting each other. and unfortunately you can’t change over night, it really takes time. just focus on fixing the areas you know you lacked, and hopefully he will sense or see that change
my ex boyfriend broke up with me because he kept hurting me. kept cheating in many ways. doesn't even have to be physical cheating. he knew what he was doing. the morning of our breakup I saw another reason to leave. I thought I could. bc I did. I drove back home an hour away. he begged for me to come back. then he gave me the talk. how I was right to leave. how it should stay that way bc he keeps hurting me and I keep forgiving. how I need to have self worth. I then wanted him back. after knowing there won't be an us. the chemical in my break or smt snapped and needed it's drug back. after thinking I could stop. and depend on myself for change. on someone else. is it bad I want the drug to come back. after they healed. it's a gamble with him. if he truly healed or he just can't find anyone who will put up with his shit everytime he remembers he has a gf. he broke up w me September 29th. the afternoon I had awaken from having dinner with his family. per usual. and stayed the night. ( we're 17/18 )