almost a month for no contact and not even a hint of regret from her. I thought I was special thought I meant so much to her and her world.. but actions speak way louder that's words... Im hurt bc ive thought bout her daily and if not block prob would have reached out by now... shows me time to forget her and move on .. everyone good luck with your journeys
Last updated on:2025-10-05T13:28:26+05:30
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do you think a part of you still wants her to regret it, or is it more that you just want closure from her?
ik she won't.. she blocks and throws people away without remorse ive seen it just didn't think it would be me ya know... I looked over the red flags from the start.. now 2 months past in growing to see i was more loving and caring than she was.. I focused on the wrong things
the first month is brutal, your mind runs circles. what helped me was not expecting anything from them, just focusing on what i could control. block/unblock isn’t about them, it’s about your own peace.
reading this felt like looking at my own journal a year ago. i was a month into no contact and kept refreshing hoping he’d show some regret. he never did. i kept thinking “guess i wasn’t that special after all.” it cut deep but i swear the silence was the answer
I made the decision to move on finally after I wrote this messaged a girl who ik likes me and we started talking.. I feel guilty tho and idk what bc the ex moved in so fast . I'm so confused but this new girl shows so many better qualities already 😩 prob is I'm scared to even put effort in bc the what ifs ... ugh
I had the same problem 😔 I gave the love, the time and the energy, that I didn't have for myself, to him. The breakup wasn't that nice and I did everything to keep him. And in the end he never reached me in this 32 days. It's heartbreaking, I know your pain. We have to choose better and get healed first 🙏🏻
yea.. I got i got the 1ST I love you from her 3 days before the discard and a lets be friends which I said no to..talked for 1 months here and there then she blocked me and haven't heard anything since its hard but lucky new friends have came into my life some flirt but my heart is on hold .. when my ex got with a rebound a week after