so how do i know it's truly over?
this is the third time we broke up. I've done some things im not proud of and i am genuinely sorry for everything. i thought he forgave me, but i was clearly just being delusional. Dont get me wrong, i realised all my faults and really tried to make him happy. at first , it was great, we got back together in june and had to do long distance. he came back on Monday and he told me he missed me, and that he loves me and we did it. prior to this, we were kind of rocky. so imagine how i felt when he told the next daythat he doesn't love me enough to try and make this work. he told me, maybe in the future, if God heals maybe God will bring us back together. i dont want to hold on that hope. it hurts, literally. he was my person. i cant imagine my future without him amd it's hatd letting go.
so basically, i want both of us to heal and start over the right way. but i dont know if that's worth waiting for.
Last updated on:2025-10-06T13:50:53+05:30
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when he said he doesn’t love you enough to try, what did that feel like in your body? like, did it land as truth or did it feel like he was just scared?
i feel like he was scared, i feel like the lonflg distance got to him too. but at the same time, i dont want to hold on to something that doesn't want to try. there's so many things i wanna tell him, or even call and tell but i dont know if it's worth it.
i’ve learned when someone says “maybe in the future,” it usually means they’re already checked out right now. it sucks, but holding onto a “maybe” keeps you stuck. what helped me was focusing on the fact that closure can just be… accepting their words as final, even if my heart still rebels.
my ex and i broke up three times too. every time i thought this time would be different. i kept blaming myself for all the ways i messed up, but the truth was he just didn’t want to fight for it anymore. that realization hurt more than the actual breakup.
it's completely normal to feel like you're not gonna be happy without him never love someone like him but trust me you will. if he really loved you he would fight for you and your relationship in the first place so it's not worth it. invest yourself you won't regret it
if he feels you are something not worth fighting for them believe me he won't be doing any good for you in future. trust your instincts and love yourself and may be someday you will find someone who will be loving you with all his heart