119 days of no contact. l reached a point that i really don't give a shit about him, the only thing that reminds him is my kids, believe me after some time every thing you feel now will go away and when you look back you are going to feel so good about yourself, l ve been there, you are above everything and everyone. after 32 years my whole life collapsed, l was crying for days and then i realized that he didn't deserve it!
Last updated on:2025-10-04T23:25:03+05:30
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i like how you said “you’re above everything and everyone.” that mindset is gold. what usually helps me is keeping tiny promises to myself every day, just to remind me i’m still in control of me.
i thought i’d never stop crying. but like you said, the pain shifts… one day you realize they’re not worth the tears.
So proud of you. i hope i can do it as well.
yes you can do it, i was depend on him for 32 years, i couldn't get a job all my life was him the kids and the house ,and now i am standing on my feet ,it's not easy but it is possible
@Moon Today, I feel empty. But I can stil see hope. It takes time, but like what you said, it is possible. Thank you.
you have to keep going for you and only you
Thank you for sharing your story. You really helped me by saying that nobody will feel this way forever. My relationship just ended last week and I already want the feeling to be gone. But with your messange you helped me feeling it and you reminded me that I can give everything for me and I dont need a man. Thank you so much and congratulations for becoming the best version of yourself !!
not all days are good, but I m not letting myself to fall down!
thanks for sharing. this encourages me to keep going