We broke up 9 days ago. I kinda lost myself next to him (my fault), I only watched his needs and tried to make things eas for him. soooo now im trying to do some after breakup glow, and invest in myself, and look for things to nourish my confidence and happiness. What do you do? ❤️❤️
Last updated on:2025-10-05T22:58:17+05:30
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what’s the first thing you’ve done just for you since the breakup?
i went back to eat at the korean restaurant he didnt like, and i also tried a restaurant where he didnt want to go cuz he was always too tired. and i reorganized my home.
for me it helps to stack little wins. like clean my space, move my body, eat something i actually like. those tiny things pile up and weirdly build confidence again.
yes, small things help. however i always catch myself thinking of him. what if he moves on super fast, be happy blabla...😑
my last relationship i made him the center of my whole life and i forgot who i was. when it ended i started doing tiny things for myself again, even just walking with my headphones in. it slowly reminded me i still exist outside of him.
yes. somehow the first 4 days were easier then day 10 now. i cry for the time lost, the time i abondoned my needs, my life, my heart. im mad sad and disappointed at the same time 🙄 iiit sucks
I made myself dependent of his approval. So now it’s been hard to not know what he thinks.
I got a new haircut. I have changed some of my routines. I practice self care stuff.
tell myself I don’t need him. I am worthy just the way I am.
I'm in the same situation. I started to go to the gym just to distract myself and it works actually. I'm socializing more often, it kinda hurts but I feel better at the same time. after 2 years of toxic, abusive relationship I finally feel free even though it hurts a little. day after day you will feel better trust me 🤍
I had that kind of relationship but I haven’t felt free.
for you how long did it take you to finally feel free?
@WildSun457 girl it's complicated our REAL breakup was a month ago but every time I blocked him he would reach out and threatening to k1ll himself and always blamed me so everytime I stayed because I felt bad for him but I deleted all my socials and block his and his family's numbers three days ago. I'm just starting to feel free. he was my first love and I loved him with my all heart but I realized he didn't deserve that so I left him forever.