it's been 10 days of no contact cause I still chase her for the past 1 and a half month after break up, it feels like 10 year. it's even worse cause she really close with a new guy that likes her just 2 weeks after the break up (theyre not dating yet) still i dont wanna move on idk why, i feel like shes still confused about her feelings. basically its my first time dating so i really a plain guy and doesnt really text much, but i do put a lot of effort and all the thing that i can do especially when we met cause i really love her. i feel like even tho she already forgive me about smth that ive done (even tho i did not do it intentionally) she is still mad and doesnt think well about her decision. i'm really scared that shes dating this new guy before even my 1 month of no contact and healing.
Last updated on:2025-10-05T09:10:04+05:30
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have you been able to tell yourself WHY you’re holding on so tightly? sometimes naming it helps a little with the pain.
man, it’s so tough seeing her with someone else, but giving yourself space really helps. try journaling your feelings or keeping busy, even small stuff counts.
i’ve been there 😭 first breakups hit HARD. i kept checking her socials for weeks and it just tore me up inside. it’s brutal but it DOES get easier eventually.
I completely understand how you feel. Me and my ex broke up in July, and I’m still chasing him. I actually saw him last night and he told me he didn’t want to even be friends anymore. I really loved him. He is also trying to date other people already. What I have found to help is to chase God and do things I love. I got back into reading and listening to music again. I hope you can distract yourself from her and just know this pain is temporary. You will always love her, but the pain will lessen. You have a wonderful future ahead of you!
what i mean really close is, she often play games with him, going to campus with him, and ive seen them wearing a couple dress. when i ask her do u have feelings for him, she said "idk" "were not friend but were not dating". it really hurts me. but she also said "for now i dont want to have a relationship cause im scared smth like this would happen again". i didnt know that i hurt her, she never tell me, like wth. she said that she can't blame me either tho