We were together for 10 years. We got engaged and planned to have a wedding next year. Is "fell out of love" really s thing? like how? I was so focused on our goal but she already detached like 2 or 3 months ago. I've felt it so bad. She broke up with me on her birthday which is our 10rh year anniversary. I was shocked. didn't have any reaction. blank. Now I am rebuilding my self. I don't know where to start. I chased her for over a month. I think that's enough.
Last updated on:2025-10-05T14:04:05+05:30
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how are you holding up day-to-day? have you found anything that helps you feel even a little normal again?
I don't know man. I am still grieving. I wish it would stop.
sounds like you gave it your all. focus on small steps for yourself—routine, hobbies, even tiny wins help rebuild after that kind of loss.
All or nothing brother. Thank you ☺️
i’ve been there 😭 my ex ended things i felt the same blank shock. took me months to even start feeling like myself again.
I wish we both healed from this traumatic event. I really don't know where to start how to start my life again. I see her every corner of my room. Our room 😭
it’s better to move on.
good thing is she said it before getting married.
probably you will find someone who is ready to commit and don’t have to wait 10 years
Yeah and i am so thankful for that, but here I am fixing my self. Trying to pretend that I am fine. I wish this will end soon.