Why did I see this again? Why me?
Last night, that dream. It was like a horror movie but it felt too real. He was with another girl. Engaged. Smiling. Happy. He even sent me a picture of him with her. My whole chest cracked open. I started crying, screaming inside, shaking. How can he look that happy with someone else when I still want him, when my heart is still his? đđI woke up and I was crying for real. My pillow was wet. My hands were cold. My heart was racing. I was scared. Completely broken. This is the second time. I saw the same type of dream before. He was with another girl then too. That time it was morning, just before my university interview. I woke up suddenly at 7:05am. Terrified. Shaking. Crying. And now again. Why the same dream twice? Is this a sign? Or is it just my heart showing me my worst fear? But what if one day it really happens? What if he actually belongs to someone else? How will I breathe? How will I survive that? Already there are no updates, no calls, no messages. Nothing. Just silence. I donât even know where he is, how he is, who he is with and this silence itâs eating me alive. I feel like I am already losing him, and he hasnât even said goodbye. It hurts so much. Sometimes I feel like I am going mad. How can someone carry so much pain and still live? đ
Last updated on:2025-10-05T14:56:44+05:30
Comments (5)
have you been able to talk to anyone close about these dreams? like a friend or someone who knows your story, just so youâre not holding it all alone?
Yes, I did share it with a friend, but I still keep thinking about that dream. It just keeps replaying in my mind, so I decided to post it here to let it out a bit.â¤ď¸
those dreams hit like a punch. whatâs helped me a little is writing down what i felt right after waking up, like unloading it on paper so my head doesnât spiral. it doesnât make the pain vanish, but it softens the edge.
damn i felt this in my bones. i used to have dreams like that about my ex too, the ones where he was smiling with someone else and iâd wake up crying like it actually happened. it wasnât a sign for me, it was my brain showing me my biggest fear, because my heart couldnât let go yet. itâs terrifying but youâre not weird for this.
I think itâs your fears showing in your dreams.
since you donât know anything about him your mind is showing your the worst case scenario. and that is making you very anxious.
itâs better to not give dreams too much of our time. you are living now without him. you will continue to live without him.