i really need help today,i was so good for so many days,but today has been like hell, i just miss him soo much and i feel like texting him,im on day 12 i dont want to break the no contact,and i know that i wont get back together with him but i just miss the good version of him tooo muchhh.I need you guys to help me get through this day somehow please.
Last updated on:2025-10-06T03:59:32+05:30
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thanks to everyone for the comments this community really is a blessing,lots of hugs for all of you❤️❤️❤️
it happens sometimes I also kiss him when I go to the bed we used to live in relationship for 4 years nd it wasn’t easy for me too I tried so many tings to make my self happy but end of the day every day there’s a time I miss him so much but still I tell my self to stop thinking nd start focusing on my self nd I have realised this missing things get fade with the time
hey hey hey! chill. put that phone down. don't text him. You can do it. Someone did it for more than 100 days. It is doable.
me too same feeling, I know that breaking no contact rn will just push him away further, he already blocked me asking for space n that is why m in no contact. I miss the good times, his touch, the look on his eyes, his voice, our jokes, I miss all of him. I hope he be back knowing what he did was wrong.
AshNest needs help and I know it's hard for you too but this post is not about you.
@ZappyWave665 relax m just tryna share my experience for her to feel that she's not alone in this
you can do this! you are a Queen stay strong!! lot of love from the netherlands
hi you can do it the first 2 weeks are the worst if gets better I’m on day 38 still miss him but absolutely don’t feel like
texting him at all and I think about him waaaay less.
try to find things to focus on for me pilates (added bonus my body is looking real good) exercise and journaling best things u can do. if u feel like texting write it on paper and burn it also a nice ritual to release your emotions u can do it 🥰
PLEASE DONT BREAK THE NO CONTACT. i cant even get through day 1. ur so strong u got to 12. stay there. i cant even start
hey you've done so well. I know it's hard but we need to survive it somehow. I feel similar. But I know it will pass just hang on in there. You are important, you are a priority, you are safe finally (with yourself, without him), you are wonderful. You can do it. Step by step, minute by minute. you are not alone. Sending you tons of hugs.
I feel the same way today and it’s only day 5. I looked at her socials and it triggered me and I really wanted to text her. sometimes I wonder if they feel the pull of our energy missing them…
write everything that comes to your mind. everything that you want to tell him. anything. that can help release some anxiety
go out for a walk. do something that makes your mind focus on other thing