it's been 9 months and I still can't let go.

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she's got me blocked on everything except cash app, i stupidly sent her 100 bucks last night because I know she's struggling financially and she never even acknowledged it or said thank you. when does the pain go away? out of all the relationships I've been in this one hurts the most and I can't seem to let go. I love her more than anything.

Last updated on:2025-10-06T15:26:54+05:30

Comments (6)

Jimanni
Jimanni 5 mths ago

can you tell if part of the pain is from love, or from feeling unseen and unappreciated? that makes a difference in how you heal.

mjones0511
mjones0511 5 mths ago

both i think

Motionthing
Motionthing 5 mths ago

i know it sucks, but sometimes letting go means stepping back completely—even small gestures keep reopening the wound. focus on yourself right now. 💔

zombieboy
zombieboy 5 mths ago

ugh i’ve been there 😭 i sent someone money too even though she ghosted me, and it HURT when she didn’t even say thanks. it sticks with you longer than you think.

mjones0511
mjones0511 5 mths ago

I'm ready to stop hurting already.

WildSun457
WildSun457 5 mths ago

I did something similar before starting the no contact. and I didn’t receive a simple “thank you”. but that shows how ungrateful they are.
we are good people trying to help, that’s something that they will miss, when the next one don’t do the same.