I would've never believe that we'd come to this point, 12 days of forced no contact after he blocked me for pressuring him and not respecting his request for space. I am just wondering does he also think about me? Does he also miss me? Does he also sneak peek at my socials? He's an avoidant btw and he's aware. He left the relationship because he was emotionally drained.. I loved and love him but he selfishly walked away because he couldn't handle the tension. But I'm tryna be understanding still, even now.
Ewan I miss you.
Last updated on:2025-10-06T23:33:26+05:30
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just curious—have you been able to set boundaries for yourself while he’s in no contact? sometimes protecting your heart matters most.
I figured out boundaries for myself yes, limited checking his socials, blocking myself from trying different means of contact or asking about him his mom.
I also figured out boundaries and what I want when he comes back (because I know for a fact he'll be back) and I'm teaching myself to be stronger and to be happier even without him, now or if he never comes back, forever. I also allow myself to think about him and cry or talk to chatgpt about him once per day, for a short time (5 minutes to 10 max) which btw is now once per 2~3 days.
i get it, it’s so hard when you still love them. what helped me was focusing on my own life and letting the no contact do its thing
my ex was avoidant too, left me drained and blocked me. it hurt so much, but i slowly realized his way of coping isn’t about me.
my ex is also avoidant. it’s been almost a week of nc for me. I think after they cool down in their avoidant
period they start to look at our stuff again or miss and wonder about us. from what I’ve learned it just takes them longer to feel those things because initially they feel relief it’s over and don’t have the pressure of having to be emotionally available