I could've prevented it.

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guys, today me and my boyfriend broke up. Everything was perfectly fine, until he said we needed to talk. He said he needed time away from social media, and I said that was fine. We are no contact until he's ready to talk, and he has me blocked on everything. I later found out that one of the people I'm not friends with any more was harassing him and pressuring him to break up, since he was already depressed. I live in the US, and he lives in England, we have a 5 hour time difference. What should I do to cope as a teen, I miss him so much and feel I could've done something.

Last updated on:2025-10-07T02:53:00+05:30

Comments (6)

Gioperfect
Gioperfect 5 mths ago

how often do you usually talk to him? sometimes setting small boundaries for your own feelings helps while he’s figuring stuff out.

mimi
mimi 5 mths ago

we are no contact until his mental health is better

silentme
silentme 5 mths ago

focus on yourself right now. journaling or talking to friends helps, even if it’s just little things to get through the day. you can’t control his choices.

differetbil
differetbil 5 mths ago

i’ve been there 😭 my ex went no contact too, and it felt like my world crashed. time zones and distance just make missing her worse. you’re allowed to grieve 💔

Sugarplum
Sugarplum 5 mths ago

noo stop blaming yourself. regret is gonna eat u alive. his actions are completely out of your control

Obsessedfrek
Obsessedfrek 5 mths ago

whats past is past. start accepting the reality